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Retirement?

I am nearing the point I never thought I would--retirement. I always thought that was for old people and I do not feel old. I have lot of plans of what I'd like to do. There is a bit of confusion or apprehension though, because my husband and I have a 33-year old severely handicapped daughter living with us and will until we can no longer care for her. So--my plans are not just mine; they re tied very closely to caring for her. This is somewhat frustrating. Do I dare to dream of being "free" or will I always know my life will be very structured and will have someone very dependent on me?? Such a statement makes me feel embarrassed and ashamed. I love my daughter and I have responsibilities for her care. I am glad God chose my husband and I as her guardians.

 

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